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What to do when constantly being sent legitimate emails in error

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Back in 2004, I was lucky enough to get an early gmail account.  Do you remember the days when they were more exclusive then goldust, and you could only invite a new person every few months.  Anyways, I took pmooney@gmail.com.  And although it is not a primary email address, I do use it for some services and have mail redirected to my pmooneynet account.   My name is common, and online I share it with many others, including a comedian, a cricketer, a writer, and a Microsoft blogger.  This has lead to some interesting emails over the years, but the best are from the former of that list.
I have been asked in the past to appear in the Saturday Night Live show.  I have also been asked if I would be interested in writing a book about "black America".  Both of which, although lucrative would be fundamentally flawed considering my race and geographical location, not to mention, lack of talent.  I can let those types of emails go, as they are entertaining.
But about 1-2 times per week, I get an email for another pmooney (I think his name is Pat).  These are from different people as if my email address is part of their mail list.  And these are personal emails, related to many things.  I started by ignoring them, then deleting them, then replying to the sender informing them of the mistake, then replying to all informing them of the collective mistake, and eventually went back to ignoring them.
On Friday, I received an email with a link to a secure citrix remote access portal, with link to software, username and password (no mention of SRA keyfob requirement, so I assume it is not necessary).  Sent to a gmail account.
Sent to the WRONG gmail account... mine.
A person with knowledge of these technologies.
Luckily for them, a person with some professional morals.  Information deleted.
Do any of you suffer the same fate as this?  What do you do?

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1 - I get this too, partly because Gmail tries to be smart with mail that's been incorrectly addressed.

For example, say there was no Gmail account for p.mooney@gmail.com -- they would then try and route any mail sent to such an address to the next nearest match (maybe you).

I've had all kinds of nonsense via this route, with various misspellings of my name against a gmail domain, and quite a few of them are legit. Eek!

2 - Ben, it's not trying to guess anything. They mention it when you sign up, p.mooney is the same as pmooney or p.m.o.o.n.e.y. They just strip the dots and match it. That's the reason why you can't sign up for p.m.o.o.n.e.y@gmail.com

3 - Imagine you sign up with an ISP and you get to choose your first name as a login. Well, back in 1995 his was a very real possibility. Letting go of the address is not really an option, lars@planet.nl is simply to good an address to let go of. So I am intimately aware of the problem. I have tried the same range of actions. Plus I am now registered at a number of sites attractive to people mispelling their emails, so as to claim the address...

Anyway: Cheers mate, yer not alone in yer troubles!

Lars

4 - @2 who said "guess"? This extends to more than just punctuation BTW:

... an address to the next nearest match

i.e. I get mail which is addressed quite differently to my GMail ID.

5 - @Ben, sorry. I guess "guess" was only in my head Emoticon.
I meant to refer to "trying to be smart" and specifically to your example: p.mooney is indeed the same as pmooney you can address it any way you want.
The misspellings is weird I'll give you that.

6 - I think this is the Google Help article that Vitor mentions:

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However, this part is false "Once you sign up for a particular username, any dot or capitalization variations are made permanently unavailable for new registration." - I have been able to register pedro.quaresma when pedroquaresma was taken.

Makes me wonder if I should register another email account...

7 - Odd, I don't have that problem really...lol..must by my last name... ;)

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8 - I can understand your frustration all too well. I used to have an e-mail address that was my first initial and last name. I got all kinds of e-mails, including people's bill statements, one guy's income tax returns, and a whole lot of spam obviously intended for someone else (my name isn't Carol, Carl, Cheryl, Charlotte or Chad).

What cracks me up is how often I get e-mail at work for someone else. People type in "crobinson" and hit the tab key to accept the first match. Only it's me, not the person they intended to send the message to. The actual short name they want is "cyrobinson". They don't even bother to look at the name, they just hit Send. I used to forward it to the appropriate person, then I started responding and saying they sent it to the wrong person. Now I just ignore it.